listen, i'll be the first to say i'm far from perfect..several of the people here have known me for about 5 yrs and know a little about me and shit about my family..there is a lot of shit in my past that i would not publish for the world to see..i have made plenty of mistakes..i just don't think it's cool to post about wanting to fuck someone else..you may have been joking, maybe not..it's not my life..just make sure what you say is how you want to say it..